My Insight

Never Say Never

TW: Sexual Abuse I Was My Father’s Princess I didn’t have a problem with self confidence, nor was I missing love from my father. My dad raised us to be independent, strong willed, and proud. The future looked bright.  However, I was a victim of abuse. There’s a misconception that abused individuals have low self… Read More Never Say Never

My Insight

Adult Sex Ed

I Didn’t Have Sex Ed, So I Winged It I wasn’t always comfortable with self-gratification or discussing sex. Essentially, I was raised during an era when sex education in school was limited. Also, most of my peers’ parents, mine included, acted as if we all came from a cabbage patch or a stork. We didn’t… Read More Adult Sex Ed

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Pay For Porn

Disclosure There was a time when some of us watched porn via VHS, then DVDs were introduced. About six years ago give or take, I started to indulge in “free” online sites. I was unaware of computer viruses from viewing porn websites. As a result, I ruined a laptop, then after trial and error I… Read More Pay For Porn

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My Sex Ed Journey

TW: Mention of sexual abuse First stop: Innocence To start, my father told my sisters and I that we were his princesses. He said, “I love you” every day. I remember him playing music often, music was a key component in our lives.  He enjoyed a variety of genres(that’s why I LOVE music) and was a… Read More My Sex Ed Journey

My Insight

Self-Love

“Ultimately, no one will love you like you do. So, love yourself immensely. It’s not being conceited, it’s self confidence.” S. L.