My Insight

My Sex Ed Journey

TW: Mention of sexual abuse First stop: Innocence To start, my father told my sisters and I that we were his princesses. He said, “I love you” every day. I remember him playing music often, music was a key component in our lives. He enjoyed a variety of genres(that’s why I LOVE music) and was… Read More My Sex Ed Journey

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It’s Our Day!

Music Moves Us Today I want women everywhere to embrace and love yourself (we should do this as often as possible). Find some music to soothe your mind, make you smile, feel inspired or dance. Last time, Atlantic Starr lifted my spirits, today I went with Mary! This is one of my favorite happy songs.… Read More It’s Our Day!

My Insight

Never Say Never

I Was My Father’s Princess I didn’t have a problem with self confidence, nor was I missing love from my father. My dad raised us to be independent, strong willed, and proud. The future looked bright. However, I was a victim of abuse. There’s a misconception that abused individuals have low self esteem, or they’re… Read More Never Say Never

My Insight

Adult Sex Ed

I Didn’t Have Sex Ed, So I Winged It I wasn’t always comfortable with self-gratification or discussing sex. Essentially, I was raised during an era when sex education in school was limited. Also, most of my peers’ parents, mine included, acted as if we all came from a cabbage patch or a stork. We didn’t… Read More Adult Sex Ed

My Insight

Pay For Porn

Disclosure There was a time when some of us watched porn via VHS, then DVDs were introduced. About six years ago give or take, I started to indulge in “free” online sites. I was unaware of computer viruses from viewing porn websites. As a result, I ruined a laptop, then after trial and error I… Read More Pay For Porn

Holiday Humor

Happy Holidays

HAPPY HOLIDAYS: FROM THE PLEASURE CONNOISSEUR! It’s still time to take care of yourself this holiday season, you bought something for the children. Happy New Year!  

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Lust Expires

Artist: Atlantic Starr| Song: “When Love Calls” When Love Calls, You BETTER ANSWER! The song speaks for itself, so listen to what she’s saying world! HEEEHEEEE! Briefly, my advice to people that are allowing true love to slip away: lust expires. Not to mention, your mate deserves a love that is reciprocated.To start, last time I… Read More Lust Expires

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Happy Thoughts

Artist: Haddaway| Song: “What Is Love” It’s FRIDAY!!!! Today I’m focused on having happy thoughts. I know we just cried and had ice cream last time we spoke. Nevertheless, sobbing can be utilized as a means to detox the mind. My grandmother always said, “Just let it out, inward stress will not do you any good”. … Read More Happy Thoughts

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Don’t Settle

ARTIST: Bonnie Raitt| Song: “I Can’t Make You Love Me”  “…I can’t make you love me If you don’t. You can’t make your heart feel Something it won’t. Here in the dark In these final hours, I will lay down my heart And I’ll feel the power; But you won’t. No, you won’t…” Bonnie Raitt… Read More Don’t Settle